There are few things as heartbreaking as being blindsided by the end of a relationship. You can be so in love you don’t even realize the other person is slowly inching their way out the door. But there are signs. And keep in mind that although your partner withdrawing from you could very well mean a break up is imminent, there are other possibilities. Depression, anxiety, stress, and a whole host of other problems could be at the root of the sudden personality change. If you’re really worried or unsure, it’s best to just ask them to talk things out with you.Advertisement – Continue Reading Below1. He’ll stop making plans with you. You used to hang out constantly, but suddenly your serious boyfriend is finding every excuse not to see you. They might just be trying to put off the break up talk until they’re ready.2. He might slowly start texting other women. You have a feeling he’s been talking with someone else a lot. Maybe there’s a new coworker or an old ex. And it’s not that he’s cheating, it’s just some guys have an escape plan of sorts. If this is the case, then he might already know who he’s going to pursue next after the break up. It sounds shitty (and it is), but it’s also a coping mechanism for him post-breakup.
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